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Tuesday 5 January 2010

Motherhood

I have been wanting to blog from a long time but ever since my baby girl came into this world , it took longer than expected and seemed nearly impossible....now keeping her progress as an inspiration to write ,here i go.
In this blog you will see
viju - thats me!!!
SP - my better half
Angel - our offspring :)

Viju [being upset hearing to the so called  "good news"] - you must be kidding me

SP [trying to console with his intellectual words] -Never forget that good news brings a lot to cheer and spreads happiness around.
The word "Mom" describes a woman who loves you unconditionally from birth, the one who puts her kids before herself and the one who you can always count on above everyone else.

Just telling her your problems makes you feel better because mom's always know how to make it all go away and even if you fight, know that she's just looking out for your best interests. blah ... blahhh blahh.....and the charecteristic list went on.

Thats when the million dollar question arises in viju's mind

Viju- Helloo!!!! i have a mom for all this then why should i be a mom now?

I am just married not yet termed 1 yr when already juggling with work,friends and life and as if they were not enough reasons for me to moan , there comes the so called good news for the family .


By the time i could get a hold on this thought there arrived my little angel who just by her touch and presence changed my complete life around[ which now anyway just revolves around her .]

I feel that mothering is a hidden feature present in every women which just comes alive from the touch of her child.
Though we all know its the most hardest and lowest paid job but supposed to be more rewarding [just keeping the positive spirits high here :) :)]

Ofcourse my life too went through all topsy-turvy and guess what i am still juggling with work schedules,family ,mothering and friends.so whats new in life then,

I  will tell you what

After a baby entering into your life ,it seems like time has come to a standstill where you dont know what is happening around ,seems like all the seasons have changed for you alone.All the dreams and aspirations have taken a backseat .world doesnot look so competetive anymore yet 24 hours in a day arent enough.

The day begins with a beautiful mesmerising smile which is so ecstatic,it looks as though you are starting a fresh new life with someone so adorable and lovable .

And You have your very own mommy moments where no else in world than us can have [alas !!! something that we pioneered at huh ]
You get to discover the very first things that the baby does, her dream laugh,her instantaneous mindset of relying on you,her little quest for her mamma as soon as she wakes up.
Those intimate snuggles and giggles with your baby are so precious that you dont want to trade them for anything in this world.
Finally not to mention that they are the great stress busters after a tiring day at work.

Hmmm ......after all this we are getting all geared up for parenting and not to forget the equal responsibility pact that me and my better half share .

Anyways ... I am finally here and vow to contribute to this blog regularly !

Here is to myself .... goodluck and happy blogging!!!!
And
SP - happy momming viju !!!

Viju - Yeah , lets mom it up [thinking what ever happened to all the equal responsibility that we had oathed by ,huh]


Dedicating this blog post to Our sweet Angel.





11 comments:

Shiv Prakash said...

Nice Blog...
Keep some more coming....

Regards
Shiv

Milana said...

Hey Viju,
Glad to know that you have started blogging. Very well written and straight from the heart. Continue to write, which by the way reminds me of my blog which has to be updated immediately :)

Viju -My world My Space said...

@Shiv Prakash - thank you, i ll very soon post some.

@Milana - thank you . i needed that encouragment and i will follow your bloog too.

Archana said...

Good one Vijya. Well expressed! Keep writing and enjoy!

surya said...

The blog is well written. :)

Anonymous said...

Nice one...
Wonderful choice of words....
Hope to see more posts...
and some posts on the "Father" too :)

sumanth said...

Wow..viju alias mommy:) very nice words to how a girl change/feels to a mother just by nature.this piece of article drops out from heart & very nicely ink down.keep it going..will look forward more:))...

happy blogging

Unknown said...

simply language charged with meaning to the utmost possible degree, concrete outlook of motherhood finally receives its expression!!!!!!

Viju -My world My Space said...

Thank you everyone for your comments

shilpa said...

Well expressed! Keep writing

Unknown said...

Awesome Blog.. bought a big smile on my face :))